Hey! She came back from her break. Wasn’t she supposed to come in March? Quite a few days have passed; a person gets bored when the break is a bit long. Or maybe she has some happening news to share with us? Oh! Wait. Wait. Did she end up grabbing some amazing project? Or did she meet Enrique Iglesias?
Oh! The last novel thought of yours gave me a HEART ATTACK. How I wish he could be my lover! If you haven’t heard his songs, above two lines must be nothing more than some jittery statements for you.
And for the rest of your conjectures, I would disappoint you with sharing nothing of great significance.
But yes, thanks for your wishful thinking, though only your last shot was quite something to get qualified for being wishful.
What is wishful thinking? Is it at a level higher than optimism? Well, it actually has its throne at the topmost level of being unrealistic, which is way higher than being optimistic, and thus, the distance between being pessimistic and wishful thinker can’t be even considered measurable. What makes one’s thinking wishful? Is it bad to have such an overly-positive or unrealistic mindset? A definite yes! But how about looking upon the one sitting on the throne a level lower than the one of wishful thinking? Hope. Hope has never killed anyone, or has it? Skepticism, on the other hand, erodes its vessel with every passing moment and eventually rust takes it all over. How?
Doubting everything around, a sign of leading careful life (or shall I say unduly-careful life?), makes one so annoying that he/she doesn’t need someone else to get annoyed, as the presence of their self-being is enough for them to do that. Some are born this way, with this nature, while some thank their life for doing the honors.
But is being sanguine, almost all the time, either a wise thing to be? For me, it is. If something we were hoping doesn’t turn out that way at 100th second, we at least stayed happy for those 99 seconds. Had we been in the pessimistic zone during those 99 seconds, too, we could have been jubilant or maybe glad not even for a millisecond.
Then you might say – how about the manifold disappointment I would face after being positive only to meet with failure or unwanted result at the end? Well, nobody did ever say that life is fair. It never was and will never be. If it offers you something, it probably wants something in return.
Life offers the smiles and laughter and anti-anxiety pills for ninety nine seconds, to receive that one second of agony back from us.
But this seems a better deal to me than not having even a single second of positivity.
Positive attracts positive, and negative does the same to negative. Physics rule of attraction doesn’t apply in life, and that is the reason I have always despised Physics. I mean why to study what I am never going to see happening in my life (I know, most of its theories are applicable in real-life).
Not always will a smile attract smile, but when the smile prolongs for quite a long time, it does get back one. Not always a positive mind will charm a positive incident, but after sometime it certainly will.
If we already give up to the skepticism, we might lose even before the race begins. And if we always walk with rosiness by our side, we might not win the race, but we definitely would finish the race, at least. With whom do we compete in this race? With ourselves. With our fears. With our anxieties. With our nerves. And I am certain that we can win, we can leave behind our fears and anxieties, if only we dare to try. But shouldn’t we try learning to rather finish the race along with enjoying it before heading towards learning to win it? Bit confusing?
Learn to finish the race along with enjoying the journey -> Learn to win it.
Doesn’t this sound a bit wiser or a better thing to do? Well, it sounds that way, at least to me.
So, my early comeback, which actually isn’t that early too, is nothing like a boom, but I hope it is nothing like a mewl either.
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