A GUIDE to a Girl’s Character! *trending*


What better Guide can one get than a Guide to a Girl created by A Girl? Nothing, right?

So let us start with our list –

  •  If I share my smile and laughter with you, I am easy and faster to be preyed upon,
    IF I hesitate in passing a smile or two to you, I still will be your prey for I am a girl, but I might take quite longer than the sluttish extrovert one.
  •  If I wear crop tops, skirts, shorts, or any other skin exposing attire, I am hinting you to catch me up,
    IF I wear full body covering clothes, I still will be hinting you for I am a girl, but with an intriguing mystery of what is hidden under that huge piece of cloth.
  •  If I smoke, enjoy weed and drink with you, I am asking you to take me to your bed,
    IF I don’t, I still will be asking you for I am a girl, but by being sober and plain by mind.
  •  If I stay out till late night, then I have an AVAILABLE board dangling around my neck,
    IF I get into my place before sun sets, I still am dangled around with that board for I am a girl, but with an indication of getting it done at my place.
  •  If I share my secrets with you of my intimate relations with past boyfriends, I am directing you to get into my pants,
    IF I never had any boyfriend before, I still am directing you to get down on me for I am a girl, but with a clean chit in my hand or pant (whatever serves you better).
  •  If I say YES, that means I agreed,
    BUT IF I say NO, I still agreed with my hidden consent behind that NO for I AM A GIRL YOUR SLAVE.

And the list can go on and on and on.

Situation worsens when it’s not only patriarchal society that points out a woman’s character in a difficult situation or in that case in any situation, but also other females who make her character a questionable affair.
It’s high time now, that we girls, stand up FOR each other, instead of standing AGAINST each other.

Shoojit Sircar’s PINK is hard-hitting. Unfortunately, unlike movie, not every Minal will get someone like Mr.Sehgal to rescue her from the trap of hypocrite patriarchal and non-patriarchal society’s norms on ‘How A GIRL should behave, talk, walk, dress and maybe even breathe’. 😦

When you are reminded of your brutal society with such degraded mind-set, then one should expect nothing else from me but to provide a personalized bible.

So now as you have this ‘Bible’ with you, keep it close to your heart and memorize it’s each and every point for YOU ARE A MAN SCURVY LEECH.

Thanks!

P.S. – Not everyone has the same mind-set, but enough of them have that females suffer for the things, they cannot be even blamed for.

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47 Comments Add yours

  1. prithaghosh says:

    I loved this post! Wonderful and keep it up. I also run a fashion, beauty, lifestyle blog. You can check here- https://thefashiondesert.wordpress.com/
    If you like my blog please start following me. I will definitely follow you back. ❤
    Good day! 🙂

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Idle Muser says:

      Thank you! 🙂
      Sure, will check out yours soon.

      Liked by 1 person

  2. Just a word : perfect 👌👌

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Idle Muser says:

      Oh!
      Thank you so much!😊

      Like

  3. yejisworld says:

    wow! Loved it, especially the way you conveyed it. Hilarious, meaningful and thought-provoking !
    Keep writing …

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Idle Muser says:

      Thank you for going through it.☺
      Your article was related to this. So I thought you might like it.😊

      Liked by 1 person

  4. Eugenia says:

    Great blog post and thank you for the follow.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Idle Muser says:

      Thanks!😊😊
      Mutual feeling.☺

      Liked by 1 person

  5. ‘If I wear crop tops, skirts, shorts, or any other skin exposing attire, I am hinting you to catch me up,
    IF I wear full body covering clothes, I still will be hinting you for I am a girl, but with an intriguing mystery of what is hidden under that huge piece of cloth.’ – It is so true but so many girls do not get that right..
    Your blogpost is great! ❤

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Idle Muser says:

      We have to fight for our right, and we are.😃
      Thank you so much for appreciation, Kathi!😊

      Like

  6. that’s really true…well written

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Idle Muser says:

      Unfortunately, this is the truth we need to change.
      Thank you for going through it girl! 🙂

      Liked by 1 person

    1. Idle Muser says:

      Thank you so much Ishan.😊
      I checked your blog too. Pretty good, though there’s always a room for improvement.☺

      Liked by 1 person

      1. breadomlette says:

        your blog is too good…thnks for read my blog…

        Liked by 1 person

  7. Aishwarya V says:

    Awesome post!!Good Words …Mesmerizing !!

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Idle Muser says:

      Thanks Aishwarya!😊

      Liked by 1 person

  8. This is a fantastic post Idle. You have a lot of courage to tell it the way you did, but it’s all true, and i love the irony and the funny look At this “brutal society with such degraded mind-set”! Well done!

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Idle Muser says:

      I wish it wasn’t true, or by anyway I could be proven wrong. But unfortunately it neither is any lie nor any exaggeration.😐

      Thanks for the appreciation!😊

      Like

  9. RM Saravanan says:

    Courageous article Aditi. Really appreciate.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Idle Muser says:

      Thank you so much Sir. 🙂
      I didn’t really realize when I finished writing this. But after publishing and reading it again, I realized that I did write something strong which might attract opposition statements too.

      Like

  10. The Insider says:

    I love it 🎩
    Awesome 👌

    Liked by 2 people

    1. Idle Muser says:

      Thank you.😊☺

      Liked by 1 person

  11. Lovely post .. I’ve nominated you for the Liebster Award, kindly check https://scintillatingmemoirs.wordpress.com/2016/10/02/liebster-award/

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Idle Muser says:

      Thank you for going through my post, and nominating for this award.☺
      I’ll participate in it as soon as possible!😊

      Like

    1. Idle Muser says:

      I went through your blog. It’s a nice initiative!👍😊

      Liked by 1 person

  12. Vinny Idol says:

    I like the cheat sheet youve given to us men.lol. In response to the so called “shaming”. I dont believe women should be chastised for being sexual, as long as they arent being hypocritical or trying to destroy the men.

    Lord knows I dont like prudish and cold women.lol

    Liked by 2 people

    1. Idle Muser says:

      😄
      First of all thanks for stopping by and reading it.😊
      Secondly, this is for pervert and low mindset people, which includes women too. I hope you read my line where I wrote ‘women’. Also, I mentioned in the last – Not all are with this mindset, but enough are there to destroy women through their degraded opinions and attitude.

      PS – I’m not a feminist. Actually I couldn’t decipher the exact, actual, REAL meaning behind this word yet, but will surely do soon.😁
      I’m not against Men. I’m against those people (which includes all genders) who try to lower down the females on the basis of their dress sense, their timings of going out and so on.

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      1. Vinny Idol says:

        Thanks for having me. I sensed that, once I read deeper into the post.

        Feminist today means anti-male, or female supremacist. Im sorry, but its the truth.

        Yeah, I dont support people who shame women for being horny, but I do feel that their is a time and place for certain things.

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        1. Idle Muser says:

          Yeah, you’re very much right. Feminism has taken a lot new shape these days. It needs an entire post to be discussed. We might get that chance too.😄
          But anyhow as far as my post is concerned, it’s not only about a woman being sexual.
          It’s about when any gruesome thing happens, everything comes down to – inappropriate dress a lady was wearing, inappropriate time at which she was out, inappropriate way she was talking. Everything becomes inappropriate. I am sure there must be people who have rules on how a woman should even breathe.

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          1. Vinny Idol says:

            I can respect that. People are too judgemental these days.

            I wrote a post about feminism.

            Liked by 1 person

            1. Idle Muser says:

              True.
              Oh that’s great. Please share the link of that post, I would love to read it. 🙂

              Liked by 1 person

              1. Vinny Idol says:

                Thanks. Ive shared the link below. Thanks for following my blog.

                https://blackdiamondproject.org/2016/09/05/lena-dunham-feminist/

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  13. ʞɐ says:

    I would love to deny everything, but unfortunately it’s quite true. And it pains me to say that. How I wish we could stop all this and be humans for a second. No, second is way too less… Be humans for as long as we can and act like one.

    Well written post.
    I hope there will be a day when we stop all this and you write about the beautiful world we were meant to live in.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Idle Muser says:

      Thank you.
      I wish you could deny everything.
      Yes, even I am looking forward to that day, eagerly, when I will write something entirely opposite to this. 🙂

      Liked by 1 person

      1. ʞɐ says:

        My pleasure.
        I hope that day is not far. It’s a very very long shot, but still.
        🙂

        Liked by 1 person

  14. Monica Krishnamurthy says:

    Jus feels proud abt u, the way u putting up ur taughts are simply superb.. Too gud dear, keep writing.. Waiting for ur nxt post.. Luv u..

    Liked by 2 people

    1. Idle Muser says:

      Thank you so much Monica.
      I am glad even in your busy schedule, you take your time out to go through my writings. 😀
      Love you too. ❤

      Liked by 1 person

  15. kratzworld says:

    nominated you for One Lovely Blog Award. Do participate if possible.🙂 would love to read your answers.
    find the details here https://kratzworld.wordpress.com/2016/09/25/one-lovely-blog-award-thank-you/

    Liked by 2 people

    1. Idle Muser says:

      Hey thank you so much. 🙂
      I will try to participate in it as soon as possible. 😀

      Liked by 1 person

      1. kratzworld says:

        you’re welcome. 🙂 shall look forward to it. 🙂

        Liked by 1 person

  16. Bailey says:

    amazing 👏🏼 so so true. Couldn’t of said it better myself

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Idle Muser says:

      Thank you Bailey. 😀 🙂

      Liked by 1 person

  17. Apeksha Rai says:

    So another great post is out!!!! 🙂
    Oh god! I loved the way you ended it! 🙂

    Liked by 2 people

    1. Idle Muser says:

      Thank you so much Apeksha. ❤ 🙂

      Liked by 1 person

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